Helping Your Children through Divorce

The potential long term effects of divorce have been documented by multiple studies over the years, although there has been a good deal of debate over how to interpret the data. Most childcare researchers agree that a divorce can be either a difficult but manageable experience, or a significant trauma creating lasting psychological harm. The amount of help and support children receive during this difficult time may be the most important difference between the two outcomes.

At the offices of the Schlegel Law Group, we understand how complex and emotionally taxing a divorce can be for everyone in the family. We strive to minimize your stress as much as possible by providing reliable and efficient legal services. To learn more, call our Orlando divorce lawyers at 407-648-0280.

Coping Tips for Children

Studies have shown that children of different age groups tend to handle divorce differently. However, there are some similarities across all ages. Many children will experience anxiety about the future, fear of abandonment, and a sense of loss or sorrow. They may also express anger towards one or both parents, or direct their anger towards third parties.

Some techniques that may help your children adjust to their new situation include the following:

• Let your children feel safe expressing themselves. Sometimes children feel uncertain about expressing negative emotions, especially towards their parents. Let your kids know that feeling angry, sad, or fearful is normal and acceptable
• Try to follow a routine as much as you can. During times of upheaval, children often crave stability, especially the younger ones. If your kids know that they can count on certain traditions or routines no matter what, they will likely feel a little safer.
• Do not air your marital problems in front of your children. Taking care of them should be your priority, not seeking revenge on your ex-spouse. Speak to your ex civilly whenever your children are around, and do not say negative things about him or her to your kids.

If you have any questions about child custody, family support, or your rights as a parent during the divorce process, our Orlando divorce attorneys are here to help.

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The Schlegel Law Group is committed to providing consistent and accessible legal assistance. Contact our Orlando divorce lawyers today at 407-648-0280.